关于培养孩子的雅思作文范文

　　Nature and nurture, which plays a major role in the personality and development of children?　　天性和后天培养，哪个因素在孩子性格的发展过程中起主要作用？

　　In children' s development of personality, which plays a major part, nature or nurture? As I see it, nurture is as important as, if not more important than nature.

　　Family does play a significant role in shaping children' s inclination and character. After one is born, the first and nearest surroundings is the family in which he will grow up. Parents are the first teachers to their children. Every day, parents' speech and action influence the mental and physical development of their children who tend to follow what their parents do. Because the family is children' s most direct source of knowledge and other experience, those who are brought up in good family tend to possess many pleasant characters.

　　When a child becomes old enough to communicate with other children, he begins having friends who sometimes influence him more rapidly than do families. By associating with friends, one can gradually get into the society and become sociable. To some extent, man is a sociable creature so that children should understand the society, get used to it, and get pleasure out of it. To this point, friends would help. As for me, I have lots of friends who have many different opinions and personalities. Discussing with them enriches my thought, and playing with them builds up my personality.

　　Some people advocate the role of nature in molding children' s characteristics. They take for example some of famous families in the world, which brought up many scientists, such as Bernoullis. But it should be a forceful example to demonstrate the importance of the family' s nurture.

　　If you want to succeed, do not rely on the nature. To achieve your goal needs the efforts of yourself. God helps those who help themselves.

　　在儿童个性发展过程中，什么占据主导地位，是他们的天性还是后天的培养？在我看来，后天如果不能比天性重要，至少也与天性同等重要。

　　家庭在孩子的爱好和性格的形成中起重要的作用。当一个孩子出生以后，他所面对的第一个和近的环境就是他即将在那里成长的家庭。家长是孩子的第一位老师。每天，家长的言行都会影响孩子们的身心发展，孩子们也会学父母的行为。因为，家庭是孩子获取知识和经验的直接源泉，那些在好的家庭里长大的孩子会有很多好品质。

　　当一个孩子长大到可以与别的孩子交流的时候，他们会交一些朋友，这些朋友有时候会比家庭更快地影响他们的行为。通过结交朋友，他们可以逐渐地步入社会并善于与人交往。在某种程度上，人是喜欢交往的动物，所以孩子们应该学会了解社会，适应社会，并且在其中找到快乐。基于这一点，朋友可以给予一定的帮助。就我而言，我有很多朋友他们都有不同的观点和个性。在和他们讨论的过程中丰富了我的思想，和他们玩乐的时候增强了我的个性。

　　一些人认为孩子的个性是天生的。他们举了很多世界上知名的家庭的例子，在这些家庭中产生了一些科学家，例如贝努里家族。但是这其实是一个有力的例子来说明家庭教育的重要性。

　　如果你想成功，不要依赖于天性。要想达到目标需要你自身的努力，天助自助者。